The actress, who was 23 at the time she walked down the aisle, opens up in Glamour’s November issue, about the relationship.“I never really thought about getting married—it just kind of happened,” she said. “You hope that a relationship makes you better, that you learn things about yourself. … I feel more confident to explore things within myself that I hadn’t thought about in the past.”

One thing, the “Lost in Translation” star is exploring is music. Scarlett Johansson combined forces with singer-songwriter Pete Yorn to release her album The Breakup this September. The idea apparently came about when Pete texted her suggesting they work on an album — this was before he actually knew whether or not she could sing (talk about a leap of faith!). She said yes, even though she thought the idea was weird at first, and to Pete’s relief, he learned that she could indeed carry a tune.